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Mark Entrekin: Hello, everyone. Thank you and welcome to another edition of achieving unity, success, formula podcasts.
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Mark Entrekin: Or we turn chaos into connection and purpose into action.
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Mark Entrekin: I am your host, Mark intriken. And today is another episode about the achieving unity, success, formula, making life better by encouraging, inspiring, and including others.
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Mark Entrekin: If you see, by our 1st screen, it's our gift to you, and we hope you will go get a copy of it. It is our
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Mark Entrekin: Achieving Unity Guide to help us all in what achieving unity is all about.
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Mark Entrekin: It's a process of being more in tune with each other, and it's not a soft skill.
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Mark Entrekin: It is a mindset, each of us helping each other. We can't do it alone.
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Mark Entrekin: We're always dependent on each other, and with our achieving unity guide. We can get beyond things such as frustration.
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Mark Entrekin: disconnection, and
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Mark Entrekin: avoiding others because of minor differences. So please get a copy of it. The QR code on the bottom left will get you the Unity Guide and get to our blog, our newsletter, the QR. Code on the bottom right.
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Mark Entrekin: We always love to hear from you
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Mark Entrekin: this again, this is you achieving unity, success, formula, and welcome to weekly podcast, number 45. We are here every Wednesday, one Pm, pacific time, 4 Pm. Eastern time waiting to hear from you and hear what you want to see.
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Mark Entrekin: to hear what you want in the podcast because this is all about us working together.
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Mark Entrekin: we are the reality focused dynamics. Success focused solution.
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Mark Entrekin: One thing we want to know is what we can do to help each other in what we do
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Mark Entrekin: where we go and where we grow.
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Mark Entrekin: because it's all about focus, as you can see in our logo here. It truly represents the heart of what we do.
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Mark Entrekin: Notice how focused is right in the center.
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Mark Entrekin: That's because everything that we explore explore is from reality, focused dynamics
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Mark Entrekin: bringing us success focused solutions and they revolve around clear, intentional direction.
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Mark Entrekin: In fact.
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Mark Entrekin: that idea of focus is so central to us, it's even built right into our business phone number (303) 362-8733, which spells 3. 0, 3 focused on your phone pad.
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Mark Entrekin: We believe that truly focusing on what matters
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Mark Entrekin: can create meaningful change and achieving lasting unity.
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Mark Entrekin: We have proven compassionate strategies that turn conflict.
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Mark Entrekin: the conflict we run into every day
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Mark Entrekin: into lasting harmony, at home, at work, and in every relationship that matters turn that conflict into connection.
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Mark Entrekin: Have you ever been frustrated by tension, by argument?
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Mark Entrekin: Our 7 step roadmap gives you the tools to move from conflict to collaboration, to communication quickly and confidently.
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Mark Entrekin: Have you ever been craving a stronger trust, a stronger connection with someone personally or professionally
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Mark Entrekin: discover communication, tactics that build respect.
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Mark Entrekin: can repair relationships and unify teams as well as families alike.
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Mark Entrekin: We transform conflict, interconnection together, achieving unity.
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Mark Entrekin: Unity inspires us in our home
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Mark Entrekin: unity shapes society, it transforms workplaces, it helps us all work together better from couples to families, to huge corporations.
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Mark Entrekin: What we do is help you turn that frustration and to understanding.
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Mark Entrekin: Have you ever heard somebody say what the frustration? Yeah, I know. Sometimes they use a different word than frustration.
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Mark Entrekin: But we need to find value in our actions instead of reacting in that anger, that frustration.
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Mark Entrekin: I hate that disconnection.
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Mark Entrekin: We show that anger holds no value.
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Mark Entrekin: It's just actions not gaining effective results. A NGER. Actions not gaining effective results.
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Mark Entrekin: There's no value to anger.
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Mark Entrekin: Life happens in every relationship, again.
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Mark Entrekin: from personal to professional and from professional back to personal.
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Mark Entrekin: from parenting, time to partnerships in the boardroom.
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Mark Entrekin: in the bedroom, and every room in between.
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Mark Entrekin: We show you how to embrace challenges and encourage
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Mark Entrekin: a more inspired and inclusive future. That's the Ei principle. And you'll see more of that when you go out to look at our podcast I'm sorry, not our podcast on our newsletters
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Mark Entrekin: or the articles I publish out there each week talks more about that
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Mark Entrekin: encouragement, the inspiration and inclusive feature. Ei, it goes to one goal.
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Mark Entrekin: one vision achieving unity in every area of life.
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Mark Entrekin: our call to action. Let's ditch that drama. Let's get stuff done.
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Mark Entrekin: We show you how to turn your life from what may seem like a dumpster fire
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Mark Entrekin: to a well oiled machine. One that performs achieving unity is the path to stronger relationships.
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Mark Entrekin: Inspired leadership and lasting change.
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Mark Entrekin: Call me for any coaching, consulting courses and keynote speeches, and we're also doing workshops
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Mark Entrekin: call. And we can do workshops that are either short term virtual or long term at your office.
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Mark Entrekin: Connect with us today in www.realityfocusdynamics.com.
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Mark Entrekin: (303) 362-8733, again, is the same as 3 0, 3. Focused on your dial. You can also use a QR code down the bottom. Right.
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Mark Entrekin: our guest coming up fast next week.
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Mark Entrekin: We have Tiffany. Knock your socks off Kellogg. She's works with moms without children helping build on what we're doing and where we're going in families, and what family life is like.
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Mark Entrekin: Because all of August is talking about moms, mothers
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Mark Entrekin: parenting what the life, how life has changed. Going forward
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Mark Entrekin: on 8 6. I have a new guest. My firmware guest was to be here. She had to move to November, so she'll be here the the Wednesday before Thanksgiving.
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Mark Entrekin: But Linda Ray will come. Talk to us on 8, 6 on August 13.th Jamie Martin.
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Mark Entrekin: Silence, doubt, and start living life on your terms. Do you feel sometimes you're not living life on your terms? Someone else is making all the decisions. Come, talk to us next week, August 13, th not next week, but on August 13, th
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Mark Entrekin: then, Julie Hames, how to raise an adult when you're raising your children?
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Mark Entrekin: What are you thinking about just now?
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Mark Entrekin: Are we thinking about the future? Come back on August 20th we'll talk more about that
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Mark Entrekin: then. August 27, th Arthur Merrick.
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Mark Entrekin: Yes, you can raise happy, responsible children
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Mark Entrekin: too many times we see them on the street. A lot of parents don't know how.
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Mark Entrekin: Sometimes it's in our culture, sometimes how we learned.
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Mark Entrekin: we just need to learn more, teach more, and learn how to raise happy children.
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Mark Entrekin: make them responsible, make them understand they can be happy, being responsible. So please come back on August 27.th Put this on your calendar. Would love to see you here every week.
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Mark Entrekin: and today a very close friend of mine, a person, I think the world of in so many ways.
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Mark Entrekin: It works in brain, health, family success, and unlocking human potential
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Mark Entrekin: is also known as the parent whisperer.
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Mark Entrekin: Dr. Ali Linkarani, widely known as Dr. L. Is a clinical neuroscientist.
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Mark Entrekin: He's a speaker and children's performance experts.
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Mark Entrekin: He's dedicated to helping families thrive
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Mark Entrekin: with over a decade of experience. He empowers parents to improve learning.
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Mark Entrekin: improve behavior and the emotional well-being in our children through brain-based strategies. And I know for myself, sometimes I don't use mind enough.
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Mark Entrekin: That's why I turn to people like Dr. L.
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Mark Entrekin: He blends science.
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Mark Entrekin: compassion, practical tools to guide families toward healthier and again, happier lives. Don't we all want to be happier.
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Mark Entrekin: He's a bestselling author host of the role model maker, TV,
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Mark Entrekin: and a powerful advocate for unlocking the full potential in every child and parent. We'll hear this again later before we close. But his website's down there in the bottom right role model maker.com.
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Mark Entrekin: But now, if you would please help me welcome. Dr. Ali Lakarani, Dr. L.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Thank you, Mark. I'm very excited to be here.
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Mark Entrekin: Dr. Ellis, so good to see you. I'm excited to be able to be on a podcast with you.
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Mark Entrekin: So much to do and like to see the owner several times per week of.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Mark. It appears you're frozen, Renee. Can you hear me? Okay.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Okay. I just wanted to make sure
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: you want to pause it till he comes back.
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Mark Entrekin: I'm excited to be able to work with you in this.
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Mark Entrekin: and let's see recordings going. So we're back on track. Thank you. And Dr. L. Thank you so much. Again.
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Mark Entrekin: We may hear this twice, but it's just a pleasure knowing you and working with you.
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Mark Entrekin: You've got so much knowledge, so much background and so much understanding, clinical, neuroscientist children's performance optimizer.
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Mark Entrekin: When you talk to people, what what do you tell people?
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Mark Entrekin: Do you have a more casual title. What do you tell people at a dinner party.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: That's an awesome question. In fact, when I stepped away from private practice and started doing what I do, currently, my wife had this huge concern about. I don't know what to tell people when they ask me, What does your husband do? So? At this point I think the shortest answer that I have is I'm a physician, a consultant, and an activist.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: and that is as condensed as I have been able to get it to be.
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Mark Entrekin: That is amazing. That's good. Because and I hear about activists. And you're
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Mark Entrekin: Sometimes we hear the word activists. And we see the people on TV. They're not necessarily being professional.
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Mark Entrekin: But you're active in so many positive ways, helping families, helping children.
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Mark Entrekin: It's amazing how what? What sparked your interest. So you you are a physician. You're a doctor well known
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: I always joke, I mean, I do have attention, deficit and hyperactivity disorder. So when you were showing your categories, and you had focus right in the middle of it. I'm like I could definitely use some of that focus.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: But having said that, I always joke that it only took me a post doctorate to figure out what's going on inside my head. And I always was passionate about helping people when I was in high school. A lot of the, you know, you used to take these new computer tests that
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: would say what you should be when you grow up based on some questions that you would fill out. And a lot of it was about public service, social worker things that was in service, and eventually, because of my natural tendency to do well in math and sciences. I pursued biology and evolutionary biology, environmental biology, and undergrad and ultimately human biology, which led me to my background in chiropractic medicine. But ultimately I focused
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: on pediatrics, chiropractic pediatrics because I really felt that I make the biggest difference when I start with a young wife that has many decades to still live its full potential. And because of my background, coming from Iran and
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: growing up in during the Iran Iraq War performance and achievement was a huge thing my Tedx, talk to. I talk about this. So it's kind of engineered into me at this point that you know
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: optimizing your performance is just something that I'm all about. So when it came to optimizing human potential, I'm like the best place to start to get the most bang for the buck, of course, happens to be with the children. They have the least amount of conditioning, the most potential. And so that's where I focus and
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: long term. I realized that when it came to making a difference it's much easier to work
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: from top down and from inside out, working with the body instead of working against the body, so
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: clinical neuroscience and helping to rewire these developing minds became a passion of mine and neurodevelopmental disorders which ultimately ended up being what we now call the autism spectrum disorders that spans everything from Add and Adhd to Asperger's to rest. Dyslexia, as well as autism itself, is included under that umbrella, and what we currently call neurodiversity.
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Mark Entrekin: I like that. I like that diversity. It's funny, too. You talk about the Ad. And Adhd, and and there's more of the attention deficit sometimes for myself.
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Mark Entrekin: probably similar to you.
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Mark Entrekin: I just say I have the a disorder, because it's a lot of those in the process.
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Mark Entrekin: but that ability to focus, to get focused sometimes does help. And I appreciate what you're doing because of the help
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Mark Entrekin: with children and parents and families, because some of the things that I work with in achieving unity
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Mark Entrekin: is based on our culture in our learnings.
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Mark Entrekin: And it's called many things. Sometimes they call it just a habit that we've created.
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Mark Entrekin: Sometimes it's the perception our perceptions create our reality.
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Mark Entrekin: Do you talk about any of those things in in the way you work.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Actually, that is one of the very 1st things that I was awake awoken to
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: when I started the neurology. Because for most people, when we talk about the brain, we think of it as any other organ or any other system, basically in our body.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: But we have to consider the fact that when it comes to our brain which controls the function of everything else in our body, makes decisions, interprets the world.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: It is really encapsulated in our skull.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: It's disconnected in a huge way. It's not like our skin where it's in touch with the universe. It is disconnected from the rest of the universe, yet it has to make sense of everything by at the same time being disconnected, and then make decisions that the rest of the body now has to perform in real time in the real world and get real results with it. So that's a huge responsibility.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: And it comes down to the fact that
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: the brain is a reality emulator, that's what they call it.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Oh, reality emulator, because it takes all these signals, chemical, physical. All these different signals become electrical
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: and then ultimately it transforms them into this infrastructure, this hologram that now is its interpretation of the universe.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: None of us are really mentally connected to the world.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: that is a creation from our minds. And so when we talk about reality, and how people are connected to reality or to even one another. You have to remember. There's a lot that goes into that before you're even able to connect with the world before you're even able to connect to another human being. So when we talk about diversity and inclusion.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: there's lots of steps beforehand that, like all of those switches, have to turn on
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: before you can even understand what that concept really means. And if you are one of those lucky people that understands what diversity and inclusion means, then it also has this responsibility of making sure that we promote it, that we actually help others to achieve it. Because really, that's what humanness is all about.
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Mark Entrekin: It is, and I like the way you say that. That's what humanness is all about.
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Mark Entrekin: because I've got an article. If you go out to my newsletters says, putting the E into human
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Mark Entrekin: makes it humane.
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Mark Entrekin: And that's where we need to be is to be humane about
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Mark Entrekin: how we look at each other how we treat each other, because that diversity, even though we're different
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Mark Entrekin: in many ways, each and every one of us.
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Mark Entrekin: We are also all the same.
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Mark Entrekin: because we all. There are exceptions, of course, to every rule. But
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Mark Entrekin: we're all born with a brain.
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Mark Entrekin: We're all born with a heart.
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Mark Entrekin: and we're all born with that blood that runs inside us all.
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Mark Entrekin: and that blood is the stories I tell and speak on.
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Mark Entrekin: There's only 4 blood types, right
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Mark Entrekin: type, a type B type, A, B and type O, and no matter where we go
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Mark Entrekin: around the world, from Africa to Alaska to Scandinavia, to any of the countries, China, Russia, wherever it is.
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Mark Entrekin: If we were to go to surgery.
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Mark Entrekin: they're not gonna run back home and say, Hey, who's a buddy of Dr. L's, or who's a buddy of Mark's, and say, we need some blood that
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Mark Entrekin: we need somebody that's tall. We need somebody that's short. We need somebody that smiles a lot. We need somebody that frowns more. No, they're going to need somebody that helps right there. Somebody donates that blood that runs through our hearts each, and of us that feeds that brain like you're talking about
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Mark Entrekin: that diversity that we have is also the feeding ground
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Absolutely.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: And earlier on we were talking about the autism spectrum disorders. And I do want to bring this up as part of diversity and inclusion that we are dropping that term disorder because we're also realizing. And this is something that I experienced
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: on the personal level, that
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: different people have different ways of processing. And these individuals that are on the spectrum, they process the world, that connection, those signals that come in, they get processed differently. So naturally the responses are different. But if we have that understanding of what's happening with this person and their processing, then we can definitely be more inclusive
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: and cherish that diversity, because, as we know, many of the movers and Shakers in the world and in our history, have been part of this diverse group.
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Mark Entrekin: That is so true. And we can take that that word disorder. Because what is a disorder? It's it's a challenge. Because of our differences
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Mark Entrekin: And as I look at that, and we talk about your neuroscience. I believe you also
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Mark Entrekin: with your background. So so the old traditional Chinese medicines, I believe that you've also.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: That's correct. I've always been interested in a lot of the stuff Chinese, whether it's Chinese, martial arts, Chinese culture, acupuncture. So naturally, when it came to medicine, of course.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: going through field of chiropractic. It's a holistic way of practicing medicine holistic way of seeing human beings. It only made sense to discover this other aspect of how people long before there was modern science looked at the human being.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: the energy channels and the energy centers, and how they viewed ailment and how to optimize human potential.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: And basically, that was interesting to me as well how to marry the Western approach and the Eastern approach together, and it helped me gain insight and a deeper perspective on how human beings exist.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: atoms and molecules, but also as things that are more than just some of its parts.
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Mark Entrekin: That is so true. I like to hear what you're having to say, because
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Yeah, one of the big things, especially with my expertise and my background was
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: that, you know, when we talk about everybody, all the listeners that we have here they are gonna wake up.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: and they have a whole set of agendas, things that they need to do, responsibilities, dreams, goals, plans, is stretched out way out into the future right? And we want to get more of those things done.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: But if we want to ask something from our body. If you want our body to support us in getting these things done.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: the very 1st thing we need to do is to make sure we are supporting our bodies so that it in turn can go ahead and support us. And sometimes we forget that step.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: So we are asking our body and trying to trick our body, to do a little bit more while we give it less. And this is not a sustainable thing. Humanity is discovering that on a planetary base right now that there are no shortcuts to sustainability, and you really have to prioritize and understand what are the key things that you need to have as a foundation
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: before you can build on it.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: whether it is our civilization wanting to build and become intergalactic, or whether it is you, as an individual wanting to achieve more in life, or be a better parent to your child, or whether you want the most for your kids and for your kids to get good grades right. All of those require that foundation to be there. And if you're talking about your brain being the foundation, the control center for everything else in your body.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Then, having an optimal foundation of supporting your brain is essential for everything that comes after. Basically. So
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Mark Entrekin: Yeah, I like what you're saying, because we need to take care of ourselves. And one of the
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Mark Entrekin: issues that I see and like to have your feedback on this. There's so much that we hear about from the news from the television to
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: So I'm gonna kind of backtrack a little bit, and we're gonna get into the meat and potatoes of this in just a minute.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: with the information age that we are currently at
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: one of the things that we thought was gonna happen was, we're gonna have
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: all of this information at everybody's disposal, and people can make the best choices because they have all the information.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: But what we found out, as you mentioned is that information without a filter.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Prioritization and value systems is just noise.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: The very 1st victim of this noise is truth.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: So the very 1st victim, when we dump information on somebody is, they actually lose perspective on the truth.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: and the truth sinks to the bottom, because there is so much more interesting and engaging information out there, and truth is often mundane and trivial, and it's in the details, and nobody wants to really mess with it. That's why, you know, when you look at researchers and their research articles. It's not interesting to read that. Basically, it lacks that human component of excitement, right? The emotions.
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Mark Entrekin: Yes.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: So so the end result is that in this day and age
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: we now are creating this thing called AI, that is supposed to help us
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: in deciphering this information, getting just the stuff that we need out. But then, again, you have to remember that the bias that was in the person that designed the AI will be carried into the information that will be shared with you, so we can't entirely rely on AI to give us all the information, as they say. You know the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. It might be.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: The truth.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: or it might not be the whole truth, or basically so, as a result of it, we still need to be able to use our own value system, our own judgments to decipher. What are our priorities? So when it comes to how we've done this traditionally, it has been through professionals. Right? You would go to the doctor. You would go to the attorney. They have access to the information, but they would listen to what you have.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: and they would whittle down that information to the stuff that's relevant to you.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: and then they would put that in front of you in a way that you can digest and then respond to. So when it comes to the issue of
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: how to set that foundation, and we talked about the brain.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: I would take all of that information that's out there and bring it down to 4 components that really help set the foundation for a healthy brain
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: that can go ahead and maximize its potential control, the function of your body, and thereby make the most of what comes in from the universe and how it interacts with the world.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: So those 4 things, if you guys are ready, grab your pen and paper
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: are are, and in this particular order sleep, oxygenation, nutrition, and whole body movement.
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Mark Entrekin: Okay.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Oxygenation, nutrition, and whole body movement. So many times when you talk to people about what? What's your health plan? What do you do? Most people think about what health plan? Yeah, I have blue cross, Blue Shield or some insurance company, right?
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Mark Entrekin: United health? Who knows?
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Right. And so immediately, you're putting your health outside of your body and in control of somebody else.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: And then what they tend to do is try to work against the current work against your body, to try to get your body, to do things that is desirable to what your goals are
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: but working with the body. This is the 21st century medicine working with your brain. You can actually unlock your potential. You can alleviate ailments. You can do a lot of things, so that even if you do need the traditional
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: healthcare system, it is minimized as far as the amount of dependency that you would have to have on it, and you will be that much more in charge of the direction that you take your health and and long term, if that healthcare model is not available to you, as in many parts of the world, it's not. You still need to come back to the basics. And those basics are those 4 things that I just mentioned.
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Mark Entrekin: And that is excellent, too, because I liked what you said about being more in charge
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Mark Entrekin: of our bodies and went we're doing and how we're taking care of ourselves, and not so dependent on
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Mark Entrekin: And would I be fair to say there's not. There's more today, as you mentioned
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Yeah, I would like to separate the industry from the professional. In this.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: The professional goes to school to treat patience.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: The industry has its own focus, which oftentimes is dealt.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Politics and business, and profiting and networking, and all these other things. So industry is not patient-centered, but the professional is the clash comes where
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: the industry tries to dictate to the professional
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: how to practice, which is actually part of the reason why I left the industry. Because good morning.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Be part of a system that was not addressing the whole human being.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: and I felt that a lot of things that I was discussing did not begin and end with the neurodiverse kids and their families, but actually could be applied to all families globally.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: And so I,
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: that's the activist in me decided to step away from the physician role, some to create room for me to actually help with consulting and help with the activism. And it is my hope
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: that our children. Our next generation understands that role because I believe, like as you described it, activism, constructive activism, as in.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Make your world a better place is a dying art that doesn't exist. Whether it's because the technology has come in and people are more disconnected than ever before, or whether it is because people are more emotionally, less intelligent when it comes to expressing what they're feeling and what they want. All of those things could be related to how we tend to be disconnected, not only from the world, but really from the stuff that we want, and we should have in our lives.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: And hopefully, our children will find that way through this activism that I'm talking about, to be able to chart a course for themselves, to make that happen in their society, for their communities and for their families.
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Mark Entrekin: That is so true, if you don't mind just to step back just a little bit. As you mentioned AI. The artificial intelligence
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Mark Entrekin: I sometimes joke about it, also being antiquated intelligence depending on where the data comes from, where the information comes from. And I've been in computers for many, many years and working with the data.
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Mark Entrekin: But we're able to determine that. And hopefully, if we're using factual data reality, we can come up with an educated answer.
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Mark Entrekin: It's not my fault. I didn't learn it back then, but it is my responsibility to learn it today. So I'm not passing on some of that antiquated intelligence going forward.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: In fact, I would say that I oftentimes sit at the United Nations meetings and one of the areas that is a big concern for governments around the world is the gap between human evolution and progress and technology, evolution and progress
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: being a Wild West. But the the reality of since we're talking about diversity and inclusion is that the majority of people doing the programming?
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: the next generation of technology are not the general purpose. It's not evenly distributed. Like, we don't have programmers from all different countries. We do not have programmers that are equally represented in gender or in ethnicity and religious backgrounds. So the data that is being put in there, even if it is for a certain gender or for a religious group, is being put in by a person who actually is not
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: the person that is the expert in that field or is connected to that field. So now you're finding that there is gender bias. In this there is religious and ethnic bias in there, and this becomes an issue when we're talking about diversity and inclusion, because
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: for deciding what to put into technology.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: And if that is not being put in there, not only is it that you know you get the bias from the person who's putting in. But also when the problems arise.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: the people that are experiencing the problem oftentimes don't have a voice to remedy it or go for suggestions through technology. So that also is equally important. We're kind of getting a little off topic, but it is still related to diversity and inclusion.
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Mark Entrekin: It is. And we talk about the diversity inclusion. We also think about the equity, the Dei. You know there's a lot of political fight around that right now, which is where I grow to encouraging, inspiring, and including others which comes out with that diversity equity which is so important, and that equity has to be there.
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Mark Entrekin: What I go into on the inspiration side of inspiring others to build on what they have to get to inclusion or including others.
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Mark Entrekin: And that and that's what I mean when I say positive, we're gonna have a positive aspect
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Mark Entrekin: data doesn't matter anymore. Information doesn't matter anymore. But getting into what we know today which which I see, what you're doing when we're unlocking that human potential you talk about with that right information.
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Mark Entrekin: We can say, if this is true, then this, or else if if it's not true, we can go another direction right.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: I mean, when we were growing up, we would, we knew, having access to education
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: made. The was made would make a huge difference
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: in in your future projection of what you were able to do right fast forward, that by another 20 years. And we know that when somebody has access to Internet and technology in a computer.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: there's an entire world that opens up to them that if they didn't have this, this wouldn't even be part of the equation, so that that equity needs to include all of these things.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: And and and in order to do that, the people that already
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: have those have a sense of responsibility to making sure that they support those
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: that do not, those that are at risk or marginalized.
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Mark Entrekin: There is, and there's so much technology and
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Mark Entrekin: should say our medical terms. It's difficult for people who don't know to understand it going forward, and
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: If you want me to. If you want me to simplify it, I can say that the brain, as I mentioned 1st of all, the mind is a reality emulator. So we already discussed that. But when it comes to the brain.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: it basically does one thing as much as possible in as many different ways as possible which is connecting
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: the human brain is not fully developed when we are born. We are one of the few species that we are unviable for 2 years after birth, basically because we can't clear the birth canal with a huge brain. So some of that brain development has to happen once we get out.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Now that process happens to involve making connections, connections of different neurons within the brain connections of the different brain centers that are responsible for different tasks, connections of the brain and the body, the mind and body. And ultimately, once you've got all of that figured out. Now, your connection to the outside world as in
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: the other human beings. Other things that are in your environment. And
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: all of this is sensory, driven
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: as far as what comes in.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: So you can imagine how a person who is born into a place that has sensory hazards or sensory deprivations is going to develop differently than somebody who is in a nurturing and supportive environment that is enriched with all kinds of multimodal sensory things
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: that develop that brain in its fullest capacity. Right? So the expectation from the 2 individuals ends up being completely different, the support that they need ends up being different. And we need to be able to understand that.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: and to be able to project that in our interactions with one another. That's where empathy comes from.
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Mark Entrekin: I like what you're saying, and I can see us discussing some of these things
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Mark Entrekin: What are some things that lot of us think that it's helping that may not be helping.
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Mark Entrekin: Loaded question, probably, but.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Yeah. So so this question is beautiful in many different ways. Because part of this, if you look at my title a lot of times. I'm called the parent whisperer, because sometimes parents inadvertently get in the way of their children's progress. That's what I found out in private practice.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: and this is not to shame them or load them with more work or anything like that. The purpose of it is to have a better understanding, because that better understanding creates that empathy and more constructive dialogue like we were talking about at the beginning. So
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: the priorities of a parent need to be like a parent needs to be aware of their own priority.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: They need to be aware that the child's priorities, being born in a different time and a different era will be different has to be different than your priorities that creates conflicts
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: that creates tension.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: So although in the early years and we're talking about 0 to 6. Really.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: you know, a lot of times. What you say is what goes. But ultimately, from 6 to 12 years of age, you really are
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: letting the kids start deciding for themselves
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: and seeing the results, and then having to figure out how to deal with the results.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: And for many parents this doesn't happen until
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: teenage years, when 1st the children start being teenagers and don't want to listen to you because they want to build their own identity, and secondly, once they go into college. So a lot of the problems that modern or industrialized countries are noticing now is because of this systematization, systematization and standardization of life and education system. Many of our young adults
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: are not really adults. They are just overgrown kids. Basically, they have difficulties managing a life like you. Look at Alexander, you know, 2,000 years ago, at 17, going and taking over the world. It's like, How is that even possible where I have to remind my own child to go ahead and put food in their mouth. You know.
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Mark Entrekin: Well, that's true. Go ahead.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: So I was just saying that
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: when you ask me what is the thing that people think is good. But it's not really for for raising kids, I would say the 1st thing is the overmanagement, the helicopter parenting. So that would be the 1st thing. And the second thing is virtual learning is not the same as real world learning.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: you know. Nowadays we have Google at our hands, and Youtube and kids are exposed to a lot more than they ever were before, and they might sound like
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: adults when they talk about different topics that usually I wouldn't know until I was like 30 years old, but they know all about it.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: But knowing the information and knowing how to use the information is completely different, and that comes from real world learning, and you cannot teach that in virtual learning. So when we went through Covid and we had these online classes. And now I see a lot of kids are going through and having everything done digitally.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: It's not the same, as you know, picking up dirt and cutting your finger by mistake, and you know all of those things that teach us that what sharp and what hot really means. You can talk about hot all you want, and describe it in the book.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: but unless you have burnt your finger, you don't know what hot really means, and the effect that it has on your nervous system, and the preventative structures and the neural rewiring that happens. That doesn't happen
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: with virtual learning. So you don't. You lose the mind body connection.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: That's where a lot of problems later on happen as we find out, like things like depression and autism are on the rise. Anxiety is on the rise. Why? Because the brain doesn't feel like it can actually go ahead and make a difference in its destiny
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: because it's not connected.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: It knows a lot, but doesn't know what to do with what he knows.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: So so this is the biggest thing that I
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: warn parents and families about that. Get out there with your kids. Go for a walk in the park
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: have a real conversation, and Emoji is not the same thing.
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Mark Entrekin: It's it's a very good point. And I like what you're saying.
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Mark Entrekin: And there's my kids are grown now, and there's so many things I think about that. Gosh! I wish I would have taught them this. Gosh! I wish I would have taught them that, but I didn't know that back then.
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Mark Entrekin: and there's a lot of things that I know, a lot of things that you know.
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Mark Entrekin: and those things that other people know that that we don't know. And so it's it's a very diverse amount of knowledge out there. But as we talk about this.
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Mark Entrekin: how do you, in your position help parents become better role models
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Mark Entrekin: A Phd. In parenting. How how do you.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: It it? Actually, that? That's a good question. And I go back to the basics like we were talking about
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: when it comes to humans. We earlier talked about the evolution of technology versus the evolution of humans, the evolution of humans is much more linear and gradual. The evolution of technology is exponential.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: And humans cannot keep up
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: with that technology evolution. If you try to do that, you're gonna lose. It's guaranteed. And that's why we created technology. So we could
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: kind of surpass some of our limitations. But we need to understand our limitations, respect those limitations and realize that when it comes to human beings. There are only 3 things that really matter. If you can teach this to your kids, if you can role model this role model, this for your kids.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Then that is the most important thing you could have taught them. And it's not the latest technology, or the most expensive course, or or the gadgets that are coming out, or whatever those 3 things are health
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: relationships and how to pursue happiness.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: So you need to be able to as a parent role model that it's okay for things to be put on pause so that you can tend to yourself to be healthy so that you can go ahead and have a relationship with your spouse, or make friends, or whatever it happens to be, and be social, or that you actually have a dream, and you take the time to pursue that dream.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: whether it's going back to school, or whether it's launching a new career, whatever it happens to be, or picking up a new hobby. Show your kids that you don't come last, because when you don't do that.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: they're learning that they come last
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: when they grow up, when they have kids and obligations. So health relationships and pursuit of happiness is the best thing you can role model and teach your kids.
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Mark Entrekin: I think that is so true. I like what you're saying, Dr. L. Because when I hear that pursue happiness.
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Mark Entrekin: or felt by someone else that they should quote unquote, do
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: And I. Just as you were mentioning this, I realized some people might actually ask us, Well, what about money? What about wealth and these kind of things. And I'm going to say that, given our current climate, there are plenty of very unhappy billionaires.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Gajillionaires that are trying to change the world so obviously.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: That is not where it starts. You have to have a full cup before you can pour from it into all these other areas, and that comes from your health, your happiness, and your relationship. And if you and a lot of times people are like. Well, I'll have this instead of that. No, no, as a whole human being. You need to have all 3 of these. Please don't settle for one out of 3 or 2 out of 3, and say that, hey? I did pretty good because I had 2 out of 3
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: figure out a way to have health relationships and a pursuit of happiness every single day in your life, and you will be better off, and the world will be better off because of it.
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Mark Entrekin: That is such good words that I'm so glad that you, since we're getting close to about 7 min before we close.
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Mark Entrekin: That is so true the health and that relationship that
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Mark Entrekin: to me is so important. A true, honest relationship is so important, and to be able to pursue happiness.
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Mark Entrekin: someone else's. Well, they're doing that, and they're happy. That's not necessarily us. And that may not be pursuing our happiness.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Happiness is not a state, happiness is the process.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: and you want the your entire day to be that process.
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Mark Entrekin: every day. So true again. We're getting kind of close. If you had a magic wand, Dr. L. Let's just say, somehow, maybe it's the the rubbing, the little genie bottle. But if you had a magic wand
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: We oftentimes complain about lack of resources when it comes to health care or overspending in the, in the defense department or over budgeted government all these things. But ultimately
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: everything comes back to. We have a foundational unit for society, the family.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: And if we put that at the center of everything prioritize everything based on
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: family comes 1st families where the support, inspiration, empowerment of children comes. Family is where volunteer work from the parents happens, and all the people like you can get a more efficient way
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: making society and the next generation better support families, prioritize families.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: and wherever you get the chance and the opportunity. It's not just your family, but those families around you as well. There are families in need find ways to support them. Make your local community be more supportive of families, and so my magic wand would be to prioritize everything. So families on top.
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Mark Entrekin: Families on top. I like what you're saying, that
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Mark Entrekin: there's so much about that. And it comes down to education, too, right? That we have the right education
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Mark Entrekin: that can be one of that can be our happiness is to be able to raise our children
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Mark Entrekin: open up that ability to to be able to say, no.
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Mark Entrekin: A lot of people, not parents, it seemed, do not know how to do. Not that I'm a pro at it either, or that I was a pro at it, but it's a situation of us
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: I mean, we. We talk about one human family ultimately, if we are all one human family, we need to know at a most fundamental way how to support family so.
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Mark Entrekin: Yeah, alright! What's next for you, doctor? We got just a couple of minutes left. What's your any exciting project? Books?
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: With my Adhd. I have a lot of projects. I am focused on our nonprofit organization foundation for optimal beginnings and finding ways to integrate that into another Mega project called International Organization for African Development.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: where, while their goal is to bring healthcare to the continent of Africa.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: our goal from the nonprofit organization is to bring education, vocational training and careers to the Continent in support of that health
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: that they have.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: So so that's that's my big project.
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Mark Entrekin: Good luck, and I'm so glad I get to participate with you in that if I can partially close on one fun side of it. Remember, we're not going to be. It's not add anymore. It's Adc retention, deficit challenge, hyperactivity challenge. They're not disorders. A lot of us have it
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Mark Entrekin: not trying to justify it. But it is a challenge that we
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Mark Entrekin: must take forward and find that find that answer. And Dr. Elliott has truly been an honor to have you with us today, and
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Mark Entrekin: how you have shared insights that are designed to
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Mark Entrekin: because grandparents are so important to help give this and and be the caregivers that we can all grow and build and have healthier, as you're saying, happier and more productive lives for ourselves as grandparents, great grandparents for parents, for our children.
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Mark Entrekin: and
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Mark Entrekin: what you have brought to us today in your knowledge, your neuroscience, your additional training in traditional Chinese medicine.
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Mark Entrekin: talked a little bit of. Think about your chiropractic pediatrics. And
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Mark Entrekin: again, you have an over a decade of award, winning
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Mark Entrekin: what I have seen is to be some real differences in many people's lives. So thank you again, Dr. L. For sharing your valuable wisdom
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Mark Entrekin: and making today's episode an extraordinary experience.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: My pleasure. I was glad to have this time with you.
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Mark Entrekin: No, it's it's it's truly an honor your dedication, to to empowering others, to achieve. The impossible
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Mark Entrekin: truly shines through, and we know our audience will feel once they're here today, the ones that will see this later as it will be on Youtube
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Mark Entrekin: to feel that lasting impact of our message
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Mark Entrekin: because our journey is a powerful reminder that unity.
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Mark Entrekin: unity begins within, through self-awareness, the resilience and the willingness to grow from failure.
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Mark Entrekin: This message.
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Mark Entrekin: I think, perfectly mirrors the achieving unity that when you're bringing to us today perfectly mirrors achieving unity, success formula.
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Mark Entrekin: because we're turning that chaos, the isolation into inclusion
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Mark Entrekin: and that broken trust into purposeful collaboration, something that we all need to work for. We must remember that unity itself isn't just an ideal. It's not a soft skill.
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Mark Entrekin: It, too, is a daily chance to lead with empathy, act with integrity, and uplift others others along the way.
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Mark Entrekin: If you, if anyone felt a spark or anything. From what I've said today. What Dr. L. Has told us today.
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Mark Entrekin: Please contact him role model maker.com get in touch with him. Let him know. Let me know. Let's let's work together.
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Mark Entrekin: This has been awesome, and Dr. I appreciate you so much for being here.
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Mark Entrekin: So until next time, let us continue turning chaos.
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Mark Entrekin: It's his pleasure. Dr. L.
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Mark Entrekin: Let us keep achieving unity. You can reach me again. Www. achievingunity.com
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Mark Entrekin: call me at (303) 362-8733, which is 3 0, 3 focused. If you'll get to Dr. L. Through me, feel free to the doctor and I meet together a couple of times per week
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Mark Entrekin: or anything that you have. We can stay focused on turning chaos into connection as we are achieving unity by harnessing, the power of encouraging.
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Mark Entrekin: inspiring, and including others, in building better businesses.
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Mark Entrekin: better lives, and a better world.
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Mark Entrekin: Life is what we make it. So let's make it awesome together in unity.
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Mark Entrekin: Any last words. Dr. L.
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Dr. L (Ali Lankerani) | The Parent Whisperer: Optimize your brain potential. And you can optimize humanity's potential.
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Mark Entrekin: I like the way you say that. Dr. Thank you so much. Thank you all again. Thank you, Dr. L. For your service, your time and your commitment hope to see you all again next week. Till then
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Mark Entrekin: cheers.
